john mcsherry
John Lyall McSherry, age 96, died peacefully at his home in Weirton, West Virginia on July 2, 2010. Born in Lewiston, Maine on August 20, 1913, he was the third of four children of John and Mary Powell McSherry. He is survived by his children, Richard and his wife Linda McSherry of Norway, Maine, Janice McSherry and her husband Garen DiBartolomeo of Weirton, WV, and Suzanne McSherry of Lake Placid, New York. Also, granddaughter Christy Snow Kaster, her husband Nick and great-grandson Teddy, of Minneapolis, Minnesota, as well as numerous nieces and nephews. His wife of 54 years, Thelma Farmilo McSherry, predeceased him in 1995. John worked in the grocery business his entire life, starting after high school as a stock clerk for the Mohican Grocery in Lewiston, managing the Mohican in Glens Falls, NY, and eventually owning his own supermarket, McSherry's Super Duper, in Gloversville, NY. He continued to work as a deli manager into his 80s, long after he closed his store. John took great pride in having served his country in World War II. Assigned to the 80th Infantry Division, he attained the rank of Staff Sergeant prior to landing on Utah Beach and advancing across France and into Germany with Gen. Patton's 3rd Army. He was awarded the Purple Heart with Oak Leaf Cluster, the Combat Infantry Medal, and the Bronze Star. Like many of his generation, he only reluctantly told tales of his wartime experiences, but was proud that as a mess sergeant he was able to provide, with few exceptions, at least one hot meal a day to the men in his unit through nearly ten months of all but continuous engagement with the enemy. Despite having lived many years in New York State, Massachusetts and West Virginia, John was first and foremost a Maine Yankee. After a few years of semi-retirement with winters in Florida, he realized the longtime dream of returning to his native state when he and his wife Thelma settled in to their oceanfront home in Tenants Harbor, Maine. They took great pleasure in putting on lobster feeds for relatives and friends which featured an enameled cooker over a wood fire nestled into the rocky shore. Always active even at leisure, John fed the birds, gardened and split stovewood and, though he took it up late in life, he enjoyed playing golf until he was nearly 90. He was a friendly person who enjoyed the company of others and was known for his dry wit and gentlemanly ways. John could always be counted on by his family, friends and colleagues. The family would like to especially thank the staff at the Weirton Geriatric Center who cared for John during the last year of his life with love and dignity. He arranged for the donation of his remains to the West Virginia University Human Gift Registry, so there will be no viewing. A private memorial will be held at a later date. In recognition of his love of animals, the family suggests donations in his memory to any local animal shelter, the North Country SPCA, 23 Lake Shore Road, Westport, NY 12993 or the Marshall Point Lighthouse Museum, P.O. Box 247, Port Clyde, ME 04855.

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  1. Romans 5:1-2 (KJV) 1 Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: 2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.

  2. We were sorry to learn of the death of your Father. His obituary told a wonderful story of the life of a very caring man. Although we never knew your Dad, we know he was a special individual. Please accept our sympathy and we will be thinking of you. Mark and Barbara Trushel

  3. Dear Richard, Janice and Suzanne, Sorry to read of your dad’s passing. Would have liked to have known him more… my sympathies to you all. Best, Brooke (Anita’s youngest)

  4. Having known John since he moved into Wyngate nearly nine years ago has been a pleasure and an honor. I enjoyed my time visiting him as well as sharing meals at Wyngate. He was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He never failed to ask about my family and always enjoyed talking sports with my dad at dinner. He was an avid reader and treasured his books. I will forever miss that twinkle in his eye. They don’t make them like John anymore. God Bless.

  5. I remember going to McSherry’s Grocery Store with my mother. I loved going there because everyone was so friendly. It is one of my favorite childhood memories. Thanks Mr. McSherry for having such a wonderful place- I still remember it almost 45 years later. My condolences to all of Mr. McSherry’s family and friends.

  6. I’m saddened to hear of Mr. McSherry’s passing. I spent every Friday night at the store with my parents shopping for the weeks groceries. He always greeted us like family and once in a while would slip my sister and I a treat on the QT. May God be with him.

  7. It was always a great pleasure to have a visit with “Uncle Lyle”. he was a great gentleman and always made me feel special. He is missed Nephew, Ned

  8. John will live on in my happy and vivid memories of a summer trip to the house in Tenants Harbor, complete with his penultimate lobster bake. He was a warm, courteous, hospitable man, the kind of guy who just took care of things, and a loving father to three wonderful human beings. My condolences to the family. I know you will always miss your Dad.

  9. It was a sad day today when I found out about John’s passing. I will always remember trips to Weirton when he came over to visit for dinner. Wonderful conversation with a kind and first class gentlemen….I always felt like I had known him for many years…My best memory was hitting golf balls over the hill to see who could hit it farther…..GREAT MAN and will be greatly missed….Heaven has a new angel now……lv Deb

  10. I remember your dad well; a fine man, a good neighbor and a wonderful role model. My sincere condolences.

  11. Dear Janice, Suzanne, and Richard, We truly enjoyed knowing your father. He was intelligent, witty, kind, and a great conversationalist! He will be missed by all who knew him. The celebration of his life that you all presented on Saturday was a fine tribute. John would have loved the gathering! Many blessings to you and your family! Barbie and Gary

  12. Suzanne, Janice, and Gary: So many thoughts of you all as you gather at this sad time. Know that I send my love and fondest greetings to you, dear ones, and hold you in my heart as I hold your father in my prayers.

  13. I considered it an honor to be invited to John’s Memorial Service. It was the most intimate, sincere and heartwarming service I’ve ever attended. He had every right to be extremely proud of his three children; they are such talented, intelligent and kind people.

  14. Suzanne, Janice, Rich and family, Please accept my condolences…your father provided a wonderful home and a haven for many of us as we were growing up. There are many good memories that have come to mind. I frequently pass your old house on Pleasant Avenue and can almost see him, in the driveway, polishing that Toronado! Please know that you are in my thoughts.

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